I don’t necessarily think you shouldn’t text your crush. The points you brought up are certainly quite valid though, and I agree with 2 almost wholeheartedly. Although my one qualm is that I think it is very important, at least early on to communicate quite frequently to keep the “magic” going. Having nothing to say on the subsequent dates though, is really an issue of depth of a person I think, a true connection will lend itself to endless communication.