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Cuckold Porn is Extremely Popular?

Playboy recently posted a thorough study about ‘cuckold porn’ and its (for me anyways) surprising popularity amongst regular porn watchers. In fact, it was discovered that the term ‘cuckold’ is one of the most searched pornographic terms on the internet.

For those who don’t know, or haven’t seen any of the porn in question, being cuckolded essentially means being cheated on.  Normally, a meek-looking man confronts his pornstar wife, revealing his deep dark secret to her: he has always fantasized about watching her have sex with a virile male porn actor, usually with a huge penis.

Without thinking twice, the wife embarks on an adventure of sexual exploration with this new man (who happens to be hanging out in the room), having never experienced such an extreme level of fulfillment.  The husband sits quietly in the corner, masturbating and watching his wife have sex with this alpha male, the likes of which he could never aspire to.

It seems very odd to me that this type of porn would be so popular, because it seems to feed so directly into the insecurities and jealousies that many men in relationships seem to possess.

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ABOVE: There is also a large market for erotic/romance novels that explore the concept of ‘cuckolding,’ implying that this is a popular genre of erotica for both men and women.

Most interesting to me is the following quote from the Playboy article: “Indeed, internet search trends reveal that interest in cuckold porn has surged in the last decade,” which seems to imply that this type of pornography has become especially popular with the rise of social media, increased ease of accessibility for internet pornography, and the further establishment of the internet space as a necessity in our lives.

I never quite realized that porn-watching went through ebbs, trends and fads just like anything else.

It makes sense, in my opinion, that the rise of social media may have impacted the desirability of this type of porno, because it gives one immediate access to all of their partners’ friends and acquaintances, breaking down some kind of wall.  Before, not being able to physically see, say, your wife’s male co-workers and friends probably bred increased jealousy and resentment towards those people.  Being able to associate a name with a face perhaps quells some of these doubts, and allows these fantasies to form themselves.

I wonder also if most people who watch these pornos associate themselves with the man getting cheated on, or if they associate with the man having sex with the wife?  This is an important factor that isn’t explored in the article, and one that I don’t have an answer to.

Ultimately, I don’t really understand people’s desires to fantasize about their wives getting fucked by some porn-star stud.  I guess it stems from a man’s insecurity about being able to satisfy his wife himself?

How about you, do you have any experience with this kind of pornography?  Do you have any insight into its appeal?

11 Responses to “Cuckold Porn is Extremely Popular?”

  1. naivenancyblogs

    I’m really confused about the perspective of the person who watches this, too. To me it makes more sense that this is popular with men who seek out to be the cheater, not the cuckolded party. But! There’s also the idea that it could be women seeking out this porn because they’re looking for the fantasy of some hot stud doing them instead of their meek husband.

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    • theundiedrawer

      That’s also a good point – in general, porn is viewed less by women than by men, but it is highly possible that this is a popular fantasy for women as well, and I would be interested in reading some research about it.

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  2. psych2204

    I would love cup know how playboy know who us accessing the material. My internet is in my partners name but I watch most of the adult material . Perhaps worm are watching lots more porn than people are aware of and it is indeed a female fantasy that their loving husband wants them to get a good hard screw???

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    • theundiedrawer

      The article was based on a study conducted by a ‘sexologist’ who anonymously polled a bunch of men about their sexual fantasies. Apparently cuckold porn is one of the most common fantasies submitted!

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  3. kiwicple

    For my wife and I, we view this porn as it excites us both, we have experimented in the past but changes in lifestyle have made it difficult. I had big jealousy issues altho my ex never saw this and I never saw it as that in a previous relationship before marrying my now wife. I identified these traits when I first met her and she was “down for it and me” (being honest when you first meet is my best advice) now married 7 years. You know what tho, its not about my insecurity its about how my wife is soo hot and i want to show it off and share it and at the same time i do like when she teases me so there is a sexual humiliation side sure, but its not in hate or spite or because im inadequate. We love each other dearly and this is what porn is. Fantasy, detached from the reality’s of a 9 to 5 life with 2 kids.

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  4. rusty ray

    Cuckold porn is a mental trick men play on their physiology. Men produce more sperm when they think their women are cheating. This evolved so they can then have sex with her and have a better chance of impregnation and not the other guy.
    Simple as that.

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  5. Jim Lyle

    For years I have had a fantasy of being cuckolded. I wanted an attractive woman to tell me that even though she loved me, I wasn’t endowed enough or talanted enough to satisfy her. I wanted her to find an attractive man, force me to watch them and then haven’t me clean her afterwards. For over 20 years I thought there was something wrong with me and that I was the only guy in the world with a fantasy like this. About 5 years ago I found out that I was not alone a that other people were into this. I felt very relieved and now I just want to live out my fantasy. Hopefully someday I will find a woman willing to help me. I don’t mean an escort or pro, just a woman or attractive couple who would enjoy cuckolding me.

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  6. coupleforfun78

    I watch a lot of this type of porn, and fantasise about my wife having sex with other guys. I like the thought of watching but also taking part as a threesome. I keep it private but my wife knows about this fantasy but doesn’t want it to be a reality. Most guys, I assume, are the cheated party in the fantasy and i reckon make up most of the viewers. For me, I’m turned on by my beautiful wife, being given immense pleasure, and being promiscuous with well endowed men. In most videos they are black men which is probably a bit taboo for guys. I’m not bothered by the race, rather that they are satisfying her in ways I can’t because of their large cocks. I’m secure in how my wife feels about me and I’m comfortable with the idea of her being with other men. In reality, I have no idea how that would work, so i’m cautious to push the issue with her. The consequences can’t be predicted, and neither can I predict the emotions. Either way it’s a fun fantasy for both of us, probably more so for me. I would never discuss with any friends, as people in general think it’s shocking that I would let her be with someone else… The fact that it’s a bit wrong adds to the fantasy. I’d love more research to be done on it as I think it’s very sexy, thinking of my wife being fucked by others but she loves me no matter what.

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